Hi again, @
kalash74!
I think the best way to shop for a helmet is still to visit the local bike shop. When you try them on, you'll know which one is right for you. Waterfront Bicycle Shop on West St in NYC has nice urban styles. The shop is a couple of blocks from the Christopher St PATH station, so it's easy for you to get to.
If you want style, I can't remember the brand name, but there is a company that makes helmets that masquerade as hats and equestrian helmets etc.
How is that red bike working out for you?