I have really enjoyed reading all of the good feedback. I got the Trek wheel weight from Treks live chat so I assume it is pretty close.
I have been sharing a lot of the feedback with her but she has said to just leave it alone and she would keep riding the Trek. I would have liked to flip the Trek stem over and drop the bars a little bit but after 42 years of marriage I know better than to fix something she doesn’t think is broken. We did a nice 25 miles on a different route today and she said she enjoyed the ride. So I officially give up unless or until she changes her mind.