Originally Posted by
Mojo31
We are fans of requiring the kids to have skin in the game. We paid for their undergrad, but required them to pay their own grad school (which was required for their career choices). Daughter first complained about having a student loan for that, but she quickly got over it.
Feel for you in your situation. If I were in your shoes, I most likely would have done things differently than I did.
If that money went into a 529, they’d have a big amount covered most likely. Oh well.
Originally Posted by
TMonk
I have that much most nights of the week, usually in the form of wine with dinner. Never any more if I want to do anything meaningful on the bike the next day, which is most of the time really. A couple glasses of red seems to be as much as I can have without any noticeable hangover, and still have drive to push on the bike the next day. Or it's just a baseline, hard to tell.
Many nights I’ll have a couple of 5mg THC seltzers after dinner to relax. I prefer that to drinking- no hangover and a great night of sleep.