Originally Posted by
raria
This is controversial, but yesterday i was in a room of quite large people and I found myself not reacting well.
Normally size doesn't matter to me, its a persons character. But i could not help feel a bit annoyed, sad and frustrated at these people.
I totally get that. There's a kid at my work ('kid', he's probably like 25), I've seen him add probably 40-50 pounds over the last year. Every time I see him I want to take him aside and give him friendly advice about getting control of his weight while he's still young. At best I could win a grateful friend for life, but at worst I could get in trouble with HR, so I keep my mouth shut.