Originally Posted by RubeRad

I totally get that. There's a kid at my work ('kid', he's probably like 25), I've seen him add probably 40-50 pounds over the last year. Every time I see him I want to take him aside and give him friendly advice about getting control of his weight while he's still young. At best I could win a grateful friend for life, but at worst I could get in trouble with HR, so I keep my mouth shut.