Since I wrote that, I have cycled 15 more times. I stopped commuting for a week and was soooo depressed. I have switched up routes time and have found that going at 615 with 2 lights (f&r) feels a lot safer. Much less traffic and people see my flashing lights. Plus no school traffic. That is crazy dangerous around in here and in most places I am sure.
Those stories really do underline the danger that is everywhere and nowhere. Thanks for mentioning them.