Originally Posted by
Biere Froide
How would anyone elase handle this situation.
Not by posting private problems between husband and wife on the public internet, nor by asking random strangers what they would do.
I would ask someone I trust, a spiritual director, someone who has been happily married for decades or a very close friend instead.
This isn't a cycling problem. It is a marriage problem. Cycling just happens to be the activity and it could just as easily be tennis or gardening.
-Tim-