I've tried the swoopy grips that are supposed to spread out the load, and they weren't any more comfy. These are my faves, though I don't have the courage to get the purple ones.
https://www.amazon.com/Coolrunner-Bi.../dp/B01IP2YVK4
Of course the grips on my 1982 Schwinn are the best, but they're irreplaceable.