Originally Posted by
DaveQ24
I finally came to the conclusion that maybe I'm not the problem after all, and I am reversing causality with this thing. Accept that truth and get a few wins under my belt again and I'll be ok.
That is the best thing I've heard you say. Unfortunately some victims spend their whole life trying to figure out why they were the victim or what they did to cause it. The reality is that the victim didn't do anything to cause it. You just happened to be there. It would have happened to someone else across town or across the country if they had your father.
I can't imagine how difficult it has been for you, but you need to embrace all the wins you get. As others have said, each day is a new day and you just have to forget any loses from before and start off fresh.
John