I'm closing this for a while with some potential (likely) clean up. Reading some of the posts here gave me a "wow" moment as I had no idea what some of you had been through, but let's please try to keep things family-friendly and mostly about Kelly Catlin. Again no disrespect to anyone here.
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"Your beauty is an aeroplane;
so high, my heart cannot bear the strain." -A.C. Jobim, Triste