Sounds like you addressed the height (too high saddles increase saddle pressure). I would try a wider saddle which also tends to decrease pressure - to properly support the backside you want it wider than the sit bones (in your riding position).
I also find it really comfortable to use a short nosed saddle which I angle slightly down and lower the front end, but you can go overboard with that and put a bit too much weight on your hands or exceed your flexibility, if you go overboard with it.
Some weeks off may be needed and then taking it easy despite the changes to get everything to heal up properly.
Everything is easier if you're lighter so there's that, too.
Last edited by Branko D; 02-19-21 at 03:42 AM.