99% certain we are going to cancel our wedding, originally scheduled 5/9, postponed to 10/3/2020. We did the courthouse thing about a month ago and spent the rest of the week in Napa enjoying fine food and wine. It was nice and things are good.
There are certainly going to be some sort of distancing guidelines or at least regulations by then, we're both pretty sure. If not, will people feel OK being close/giving eachother a hug? Do we want to shell out $15k+ for a big day if it's not going to be what we want? We'd be getting some support form both sides but we'd be ponying up most of the wedding, at least that much.
At this point it's sounding like a better option to save that for an eventual home down payment. 15 grand doesn't do a whole lot towards a down payment down here, but it's not like we'd be able to make up that much cash very quickly.
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so high, my heart cannot bear the strain." -A.C. Jobim, Triste