What you are describing is what caused me to have to go to a nose-less ISM saddle. I don't have those issues anymore. It is very painful, those that have never felt it don't get it and will try to say your bike fit is off or a number of other things. A bike saddle is a very personal choice. Too much of that kind of pain and you won't want to ride anymore. If you weigh a little more than before (probably my biggest issue) then you may be putting more pressure on that area than before. I'm sure there are other reasons as well.
Last edited by Yendor72; 07-31-19 at 12:18 PM.