I really like
these bib shorts made by Przewalski. Before finding them, I tried a type with a gel chamois instead of cloth. It was awful, as my sit bones just felt like they were grinding into the gel and they kept wobbling around. The cloth chamois is so much better. My typical rides are 25 to 35 miles, and between these bibs and my Fizik Argo Tempo saddle my butt stays comfortable the whole time.
My only complaint is that the mesh sticks to my back, which I guess is probably true for all bibs. It's worth the trade for me, though, to avoid having the tight waist band with shorts. But I could see how some might prefer shorts instead of bibs because of that.