WOW! 65 lbs is really something! I was thinking you'd say 30lbs and you wanted something 25lb... LOL.
Yeah, that's a beast for sure!
I also bought my first bike online. It was a mistake. But I was also not comfortable going into a shop... and as it turns out I didn't really know what I wanted anyway. The one shop I went into steered me toward something that was really not what I wanted.
So, join the N+1 club and be proud of what you've accomplished!