With double-sided SPDs I clip when the pedal comes up every time, no looking. With single-sided sometimes the pedal doesn't come to rest just right and I have to look. I sure see a lot of experienced riders still missing their clip with other pedals.
I think shoe sole stiffness is what matters, not pedal size. I don't see how one can feel the pedal size through a stiff sole.
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