So I met a group of 3 other riders for a slow ride and while they were gracious I really felt like the fat kid in gym class again. This is what I learned.
While I can ride 10 miles at 10 to 11 mph, the group's riding style is not mine. I use the downhills to build speed for the uphill. They rode a moderate downhill and were all good climbers. I am not a good climber.
There were 2 hybrids and my DS and the leader was on a carbon road bike. The other hybrids were about the same level of bike as mine, so it was not an equipment issue it was an athletic issue. All 3 other riders are in much better shape that me. The leader did not run off and leave me and was gracious. I did however feel like I was holding them back.
If this sounds whiney it's not supposed to be. I'm just not sure I'm ready for a group ride but I am determined to return. I will work hard on endurance and climbing and I'll be back.