So I had some similar issues as well. Not as much pain, but more of a discomfort and numbing sensation down in the perineum region through the balls and the back of hamstring area connecting to the butt. So I tried this saddle, Pro Stealth LTD (142mm). Its on Amazon with free returns, so I had nothing to lose. Its got a shorter nose and a wider contact area in the back. So far, a much improved feel over my last saddle, which was like a generic Specialized saddle so not much to compare to, but definitely made a difference. After reading some of these replies, I am going to experiment with tilting the saddle more forward as well. It just feels like the right move intuitively.