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Old 08-12-17, 08:08 PM
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Well, that was cool!

So here I was tearing along on my bike in Concord, MA near the famous "Old North Bridge", when a couple of young ladies rode by me in a car honking the horn, and shouting "suggestive" comments. They did the same to a much younger jogger just down the road.

I don't get that a lot these days.

Okay, I should have perhaps used the term: "flirtatious", rather than: "suggestive". Whatever you call it, I just got a kick out of it.
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Old 08-12-17, 08:14 PM
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Congratulations, making that 30 years of cycling worth it.
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Old 08-13-17, 03:58 AM
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Are you sure that they weren't being ironic? I've heard there's a lot of that going around amongst the younger folk.
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Old 08-13-17, 07:26 AM
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Originally Posted by E53
...a couple of young ladies rode by me in a car honking the horn, and shouting "suggestive" comments.
CONGRATS!!! I get that occassionally these days. But from time to time, in personal interactions with people, I'm also told that I look like I'm in my 30s and not my 50s. Maybe it's good genes, but I like to believe that it's a lifetime of rigorous exercise, and generally trying to live a lifestyle that isn't UNhealthy.

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Old 08-13-17, 08:07 AM
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Probably the legs!
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I'll take anything as a complement regardless of the intent.

Guys doing that to lady riders get arrested.
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Old 08-13-17, 10:17 AM
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It's the legs.
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Old 08-13-17, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Hoopdriver
Guys doing that to lady riders get arrested.
This is the whole point.

If it isn't OK for men then why is it OK for women? Abuse is abuse and cat calls are not compliments.

Maybe I'm alone here but they don't seem like the kind of women I'd want to be "complimented" by, let alone associated with. My grandmother had a name for girls like that and it wasn't a nice name.


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Old 08-13-17, 12:15 PM
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It's a little disconcerting, in your 50's and cat-calls from young women. The last time it happened to me it turned out to be some of the gals that knew me, from a tech placement agency, It was more about cheering me on than anything else, which was cool IMO but also a little deflating compared to random cat-calls.
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Old 08-13-17, 01:33 PM
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Spandex is very slimming.

Just don't tell the wife.. she might think you only go out cycling to meet girls.

Puppies and babies are definite "chick" magnets.
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Old 08-13-17, 01:44 PM
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Poe's Law corollary:
Anything sufficiently ironic is indistinguishable from sincerity.

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Poe's Law corollary:
Anything sufficiently ironic is indistinguishable from sincerity.






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Originally Posted by TimothyH
This is the whole point.

If it isn't OK for men then why is it OK for women? Abuse is abuse and cat calls are not compliments.

Maybe I'm alone here but they don't seem like the kind of women I'd want to be "complimented" by, let alone associated with. My grandmother had a name for girls like that and it wasn't a nice name.


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It's different because for women, cat calls come with a perceived threat of abuse which doesn't exist for men.
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Old 08-14-17, 05:27 AM
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The "flirting with death" absolutely hilarious! Shared that with some friends.

I noticed on my last organized ride that young (20 somethings) women I spoke with, or shared a hill with called me "sir"...that's super and polite, but also a perspective to consider...LOL.
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Old 08-14-17, 06:21 AM
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Originally Posted by oldnslow2
Spandex is very slimming.

Just don't tell the wife.. she might think you only go out cycling to meet girls.

Puppies and babies are definite "chick" magnets.
I haven't gotten into the spandex thing yet. Perhaps I'd better not lest I start a riot.
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Think of if as stuffing 12 pounds into a 10 pound bag.
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Old 08-14-17, 06:31 AM
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Originally Posted by TimothyH
This is the whole point.

If it isn't OK for men then why is it OK for women?


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Alcohol will make people do things they ordinarily wouldn't.
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Originally Posted by TimothyH
This is the whole point.

If it isn't OK for men then why is it OK for women? Abuse is abuse and cat calls are not compliments.

Maybe I'm alone here but they don't seem like the kind of women I'd want to be "complimented" by, let alone associated with. My grandmother had a name for girls like that and it wasn't a nice name.


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Take it to P&R.
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Old 08-14-17, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted by E53
I haven't gotten into the spandex thing yet. Perhaps I'd better not lest I start a riot.
That's why I wear hiking shorts when commuting or OVER my spandex on long rides... Yup, that's my story and I'm sticking to it!

Hey, at closing-in-on-60, I'll take what (compliments) I can get!, LOL!!!
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Old 08-15-17, 11:21 AM
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Call me unlucky or too ugly

Never had any women of any age whistle or catcall or moon or otherwise raz me on a ride. Shucks.
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Old 08-15-17, 02:29 PM
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I rode by the North Bridge park entrance yesterday. No girls! Now I'm disappointed...

In my first year riding (age 64), I failed to unclip 3 times. Once was coming downhill in Sudbury into a T intersection. Almost no visibility to the left which is where I was going. I'm fat, so I always try to avoid complete stops - I want to maintain as much momentum as possible! I'm stretching to see, there's sand, there IS a car coming, and I'm leaned the wrong way. BAM! So I'm lying there, embarrassed, and the two girls in the car lean out to ask if I'm OK or if I need help. Wow! They're from Lincoln-Sudbury HS and they are freaking gorgeous. Had I been quicker witted, I might has asked for CPR.

My "go to" route is 31 miles and hits a corner of Billerica on N road.
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Old 08-16-17, 03:20 PM
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I live in a Navy town and have been very nicely complimented by guys. Yes, it's the legs, although the butt isn't too bad either. And of course, I'm cute.
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Old 08-16-17, 03:53 PM
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👍🏼 sounds good!

But its best not to over-think. And what ever you do: don't post on the internet!
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Old 08-17-17, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Carbonfiberboy
I live in a Navy town and have been very nicely complimented by guys. Yes, it's the legs, although the butt isn't too bad either. And of course, I'm cute.
You beat me to it. I was cycling on Coast Highway 101 when someone observed, "That guy has awesome calves," then, directly to me, "You have awesome calves." Unfortunately, it was a male cyclist. As long as my girlfriend of almost 49 years / wife of 44 years continues to tell me the same thing, no problem.
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