Arrogant road cyclists?
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Agree with most of this.
Don't worry about people not waving, if you want to wave just keep doing it.
Riding two abreast on narrow roads, yeah pretty jerky thing to do. Happened to me yesterday two guys coming towards me chit chatting oblivious to the rest of the world. I always ride the right quarter of the path, so I moved to right center to let them know I wasn't going to be comfortable with them crossing that center line (we were either going to cross during a turn or as I was coming out of it). I gave them the benefit of the doubt that they were going to move over regardless of what I did.
I disagree with only moving over when it is safe for a car to pass, I think that is the opposite of being safe. The same reason I am not tailgating when I drive, or when I am my motorcycle I am not hanging out in someones blind spot, you never know what someone is going to do. In this scenario a safe driver is not going to pass you anyway, and an A$$ is going to do it regardless.
Don't worry about people not waving, if you want to wave just keep doing it.
Riding two abreast on narrow roads, yeah pretty jerky thing to do. Happened to me yesterday two guys coming towards me chit chatting oblivious to the rest of the world. I always ride the right quarter of the path, so I moved to right center to let them know I wasn't going to be comfortable with them crossing that center line (we were either going to cross during a turn or as I was coming out of it). I gave them the benefit of the doubt that they were going to move over regardless of what I did.
I disagree with only moving over when it is safe for a car to pass, I think that is the opposite of being safe. The same reason I am not tailgating when I drive, or when I am my motorcycle I am not hanging out in someones blind spot, you never know what someone is going to do. In this scenario a safe driver is not going to pass you anyway, and an A$$ is going to do it regardless.
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Paging "Arrogant Road Cyclist":
Yes, I'm here. How may I help a Fred in need?
Yes, I'm here. How may I help a Fred in need?
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Geeze, now that you mention it I think the kids on Big Wheels "get" the signals better than the hybrids.
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I rode a flat bar bike on group rides for three years, and had several people make comments about my bike, some positive and some negative. I never once saw a look on the face of an oncoming cyclist that said all of that. I was perfectly pleased with what I rode, and never felt diminished or exalted by someone's glance.
Perhaps you are seeing your own insecurity about your choices reflected in their mirrored glasses?
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It's a joke, semi-in-joke. The cliches are that road bike cyclists are all contemptuous of hybrid riders, and hybrid bikes are always chasing down and dropping the road bike riders, enjoying the expressions of hopeless despair as they pass. Since the waving thread is also a cliche it's just a bit of piling on.
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Are you really that needy?
In some situations it's safer to control the entire lane rather than moving over and letting vehicles squeeze by you, especially if there's oncoming traffic.
In some situations it's safer to control the entire lane rather than moving over and letting vehicles squeeze by you, especially if there's oncoming traffic.
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Sometimes I wave, sometimes I don't. Sometimes my wave is returned, sometimes it's not. I try to not take it personally.
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Just real quickly because I've never experienced your roads but in general there's a flip side.
* Some roadies don't wave because they're focused. Others see it as irrelevant unless they know you, and they do have a point when you think about it.
* Riding double on narrow roads is no more disruptive than riding single. When the lane is too narrow to safely share.
* They should move over for vehicles, but only when it's safe for the vehicle to pass them in the same lane. A driver doesn't always realize that, and will sometimes squeeze by as soon as the bike moves over. You can't encourage that if you want to live.
* I don't ride in groups so maybe I see a different crowd, but I see a lot less arrogance from roadies than I see from the weekend warriors and self-appointed "ride marshals" on the MUP. Especially this time of year. I don't think any category of cyclists generally has a preponderance of it.
* Some roadies don't wave because they're focused. Others see it as irrelevant unless they know you, and they do have a point when you think about it.
* Riding double on narrow roads is no more disruptive than riding single. When the lane is too narrow to safely share.
* They should move over for vehicles, but only when it's safe for the vehicle to pass them in the same lane. A driver doesn't always realize that, and will sometimes squeeze by as soon as the bike moves over. You can't encourage that if you want to live.
* I don't ride in groups so maybe I see a different crowd, but I see a lot less arrogance from roadies than I see from the weekend warriors and self-appointed "ride marshals" on the MUP. Especially this time of year. I don't think any category of cyclists generally has a preponderance of it.
Turns out it was a 2-lane road, no shoulder and there was oncoming traffic. I explained that the cyclists need to take the lane if they want to be safe.
His response was basically that they should not ride bikes at all then.
If it's a 2-lane road with no shoulder and no oncoming traffic, I always get over if being passed from behind if I'm riding with someone else but I guess it doesn't matter since the car will pass in the other lane anyway, no?
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I tried to explain this to my brother in NJ the other day after he told me about the knuckleheads taking up "the whole road."
Turns out it was a 2-lane road, no shoulder and there was oncoming traffic. I explained that the cyclists need to take the lane if they want to be safe.
His response was basically that they should not ride bikes at all then.
If it's a 2-lane road with no shoulder and no oncoming traffic, I always get over if being passed from behind if I'm riding with someone else but I guess it doesn't matter since the car will pass in the other lane anyway, no?
Turns out it was a 2-lane road, no shoulder and there was oncoming traffic. I explained that the cyclists need to take the lane if they want to be safe.
His response was basically that they should not ride bikes at all then.
If it's a 2-lane road with no shoulder and no oncoming traffic, I always get over if being passed from behind if I'm riding with someone else but I guess it doesn't matter since the car will pass in the other lane anyway, no?
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This not funny, nor meant to be taken that way. But these "arrogant roadie did not wave at poor old me" threads are beginning to sound a lot like the young man who shot up and stabbed all those people at UCSB.
His anger was directed at people (mostly women) who were in his warped view arrogant and stuck up and routinely ignored him. Not saying that anyone here is going to go on a shooting/stabbing rampage just because their wave is not returned. But ask yourselves this, are the riders posting these "didn't wave" thread lacking so much in self-esteem that they need constant affirmation from other riders? Does it really affect your enjoyment of the ride if another rider does not return your wave, nod, or wink?
Just because we are all engaged in the same activity--riding a bike--does not mean that we must all forced to relate to each at the 'wave level."
I am a USC football fan, I don't expect everyone wearing a USC cap or tee-shirt to wave at me when I am wearing USC attire.
On the roads where I ride, there are many riders who belong to development teams and they are in training for the racing season. They are WORKING and not engaged in a leisurely Sunday stroll. I don't expect them to wave at me, in fact I don't wave at them--they are busy working.
OTOH, a few times these same "arrogant" roadies have slowed down long enough to give me a "lift" or have actually asked me if I needed help if I was stopped by the side of the road.
That gesture is worth more to me (and it should to you as well) than any stupid wave, nod, or wink.
And remember, to a blind man a wink is as good as a nod.
His anger was directed at people (mostly women) who were in his warped view arrogant and stuck up and routinely ignored him. Not saying that anyone here is going to go on a shooting/stabbing rampage just because their wave is not returned. But ask yourselves this, are the riders posting these "didn't wave" thread lacking so much in self-esteem that they need constant affirmation from other riders? Does it really affect your enjoyment of the ride if another rider does not return your wave, nod, or wink?
Just because we are all engaged in the same activity--riding a bike--does not mean that we must all forced to relate to each at the 'wave level."
I am a USC football fan, I don't expect everyone wearing a USC cap or tee-shirt to wave at me when I am wearing USC attire.
On the roads where I ride, there are many riders who belong to development teams and they are in training for the racing season. They are WORKING and not engaged in a leisurely Sunday stroll. I don't expect them to wave at me, in fact I don't wave at them--they are busy working.
OTOH, a few times these same "arrogant" roadies have slowed down long enough to give me a "lift" or have actually asked me if I needed help if I was stopped by the side of the road.
That gesture is worth more to me (and it should to you as well) than any stupid wave, nod, or wink.
And remember, to a blind man a wink is as good as a nod.
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I'll add it to the long list of things I am doing wrong. I do glance up occasionally, but I primarily was watching to make sure I didn't hit the wheel in front of me, and to stay close enough to keep the draft. I'm not looking to wave at someone. At my age I was just working as hard as I could to keep up with much younger and stronger riders, which to me is a big part of the fun of group riding. My point was that I often don't have the energy nor elite riding skills to wave while fighting for my life to keep in the draft.
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Agreed. That's why I made sure I mentioned the escape clause ("as long as it is safe"). WA has the FRAP law, but I always ride outside the door zone, too, since it is totally unsafe to ride near those parked cars. I try not to use bike lanes when they are right next to the parallel parking spots. That's a pretty dumb design, if you ask me.
I mentioned the FRAP because the OP seemed to assume it is illegal for the bicycles to take the full lane where he/she lives.
Thanks for the info. That's in line with the FRAP law we have in Washington State.
I mentioned the FRAP because the OP seemed to assume it is illegal for the bicycles to take the full lane where he/she lives.
Thanks for the info. That's in line with the FRAP law we have in Washington State.
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Stupid thread about a stupid topic that has been covered stupid to the nth power with typically stupid responses. Sit in a bath of vinegar 20 minutes each day to thicken your skin enough that you will no longer post these stupid threads. Unless of course, you are a stupid troll, in which case I am sure we will see more stupid threads.
If I'm hammering on and I'm completely focused on what I'm doing I won't have the time or energy to wave. However, if I'm cruising through residential areas at a moderate pace and I see another roadie, I'll wave or nod. Why not? It's an acknowledgement that him or her has a common interest with me.
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Another "someone didn't wave to me" thread?
Also, I don't move over for vehicles. In California cyclists have the right to the entire lane. If you educate yourself on bike safety you'll find that moving over is the wrong thing to do. Take the lane and make cars pass you as they would another car. If you move over that will encourage them to squeeze you and buzz you and eventually some idiot is going to run you off the road or force you into a parked car and you'll be dead. I don't care if someone in a car feels inconvenience for 10 seconds while they wait to pass me.
Also, I don't move over for vehicles. In California cyclists have the right to the entire lane. If you educate yourself on bike safety you'll find that moving over is the wrong thing to do. Take the lane and make cars pass you as they would another car. If you move over that will encourage them to squeeze you and buzz you and eventually some idiot is going to run you off the road or force you into a parked car and you'll be dead. I don't care if someone in a car feels inconvenience for 10 seconds while they wait to pass me.
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This not funny, nor meant to be taken that way. But these "arrogant roadie did not wave at poor old me" threads are beginning to sound a lot like the young man who shot up and stabbed all those people at UCSB.
His anger was directed at people (mostly women) who were in his warped view arrogant and stuck up and routinely ignored him. Not saying that anyone here is going to go on a shooting/stabbing rampage just because their wave is not returned. But ask yourselves this, are the riders posting these "didn't wave" thread lacking so much in self-esteem that they need constant affirmation from other riders? Does it really affect your enjoyment of the ride if another rider does not return your wave, nod, or wink?
Just because we are all engaged in the same activity--riding a bike--does not mean that we must all forced to relate to each at the 'wave level."
I am a USC football fan, I don't expect everyone wearing a USC cap or tee-shirt to wave at me when I am wearing USC attire.
On the roads where I ride, there are many riders who belong to development teams and they are in training for the racing season. They are WORKING and not engaged in a leisurely Sunday stroll. I don't expect them to wave at me, in fact I don't wave at them--they are busy working.
OTOH, a few times these same "arrogant" roadies have slowed down long enough to give me a "lift" or have actually asked me if I needed help if I was stopped by the side of the road.
That gesture is worth more to me (and it should to you as well) than any stupid wave, nod, or wink.
And remember, to a blind man a wink is as good as a nod.
His anger was directed at people (mostly women) who were in his warped view arrogant and stuck up and routinely ignored him. Not saying that anyone here is going to go on a shooting/stabbing rampage just because their wave is not returned. But ask yourselves this, are the riders posting these "didn't wave" thread lacking so much in self-esteem that they need constant affirmation from other riders? Does it really affect your enjoyment of the ride if another rider does not return your wave, nod, or wink?
Just because we are all engaged in the same activity--riding a bike--does not mean that we must all forced to relate to each at the 'wave level."
I am a USC football fan, I don't expect everyone wearing a USC cap or tee-shirt to wave at me when I am wearing USC attire.
On the roads where I ride, there are many riders who belong to development teams and they are in training for the racing season. They are WORKING and not engaged in a leisurely Sunday stroll. I don't expect them to wave at me, in fact I don't wave at them--they are busy working.
OTOH, a few times these same "arrogant" roadies have slowed down long enough to give me a "lift" or have actually asked me if I needed help if I was stopped by the side of the road.
That gesture is worth more to me (and it should to you as well) than any stupid wave, nod, or wink.
And remember, to a blind man a wink is as good as a nod.