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YellaFella 03-02-21 08:24 AM


Originally Posted by Paul Barnard (Post 21948244)
Your point seems to be that we should appease motorists. I don't see any reason to.

How and when did I say that? I've said MANY TIMES now that drivers are mostly at fault. I don't know how that equates to "appeasing" motorists. I feel like people are only reading what they want to read, rather than what I'm actually saying. Please point to a single instance of me saying or otherwise implying that we should appease drivers,

Paul Barnard 03-02-21 08:25 AM


Originally Posted by YellaFella (Post 21948189)
What's ridiculous about asking cyclists to be respectful, in the same way we want drivers to be? I continue to be a believer in the Golden Rule. Others disregarding it, IMO, doesn't justify cyclists doing the same.

Sometimes breaking the law is the most respectful thing I can do for motorists, and it can enhance my safety as well. Motorists who are not cyclists are too ignorant to realize this. They are often the most vocal with their complaints.

YellaFella 03-02-21 08:27 AM


Originally Posted by Paul Barnard (Post 21948249)
How do you define "blowing through" red lights? If the road is too narrow for a motorist to safely pass within the lane, then riding 2 abreast will allow the motorist to get around having spent less time in the oncoming lane.

I believe riding through an intersection against a red light would qualify. And I also said that if safety is a concern, riding two abreast is fine. You seem to be purposely ignoring anything that doesn't fit the narrative you're pushing here, which is that I'm saying it's all cyclists' fault. I'm not sure how else to read your comments, to be honest.

Paul Barnard 03-02-21 08:29 AM


Originally Posted by YellaFella (Post 21948252)
How and when did I say that? I've said MANY TIMES now that drivers are mostly at fault. I don't know how that equates to "appeasing" motorists. I feel like people are only reading what they want to read, rather than what I'm actually saying. Please point to a single instance of me saying or otherwise implying that we should appease drivers,

Your words:

"I also believe that we can raise the public’s perception of cyclists, so that they won’t automatically hate seeing someone hunched over their handlebars. We can do this by being specially considerate, obeying all traffic laws"

I often break the law to enhance my safety. If I won't break the law to enhance my safety in an effort to "raise the public's perception" that is the very definition of appeasement.

YellaFella 03-02-21 08:30 AM


Originally Posted by Paul Barnard (Post 21948256)
Sometimes breaking the law is the most respectful thing I can do for motorists, and it can enhance my safety as well. Motorists who are not cyclists are too ignorant to realize this. They are often the most vocal with their complaints.

And when this is called for, absolutely we should do that. Cyclists are much more at risk than drivers in every situation. Our lives are at stake, not theirs. I have never said anything to the contrary.

pdlamb 03-02-21 08:33 AM

I wonder if OP is a cyclist, or if he (or she) just likes to stir the pot.

This is something akin to posting on an NRA site, "I saw on the news last night that someone was killed or injured when they were shot. Fellow gun owners, we have to be better. Check out my blog and post back here whether you agree or not."

mstateglfr 03-02-21 08:34 AM


Originally Posted by YellaFella (Post 21948102)
To follow up on the blog itself -- it's not spam. It's simply a blog, my blog, about cycling. There's no advertising on the site. I'm not making money; I'm simply blogging about my cycling passion.

If you want to have a discussion here, then have it here. Dont redirect everyone reading away from here and to your blog. Just type your thoughts here and allow the discussion to happen. The first thing I, and many others here, thought was that you posted this topic in order to get blog traffic. If that wasnt the case, then why link the blog and why not type your views here?

It appears others have managed to get you to comment here, since the topic is here.

As for cyclists being jerks, yeah I agree they shouldnt be jerks. Drivers shouldnt be jerks. Nobody should be jerks.
I roll thru 4 way stops when there is nobody approaching. Am I a jerk or have I properly evaluated the situation for safety and clear communication, and determined it is OK to continue riding?
I have ridden thru red lights when the light wont change even though there are no cars in either direction, presumably because the traffic system doesnt recognize I am there. Am I a jerk for that?

I dont know if I am a jerk and dont really care.
If cyclists are running red lights in that they never even slow down, that is dangerous and selfish. Thats a whole other issue and I hope they dont hurt themselves or others in the process. There are always jerks in life though. That poor decision making probably wont lead to a lot of others wanting to do the same thing because most people recognize stupid actions and choose not to partake.

YellaFella 03-02-21 08:35 AM

[QUOTE=Paul Barnard;21948264]Your words:

"I also believe that we can raise the public’s perception of cyclists, so that they won’t automatically hate seeing someone hunched over their handlebars. We can do this by being specially considerate, obeying all traffic laws"

I often break the law to enhance my safety. If I won't break the law to enhance my safety in an effort to "raise the public's perception" that is the very definition of appeasement.
[/QUOTE

Not at all. Not. At. All. In those cases, it's obviously more important to be safe. But being courteous and respectful when we can is not appeasement! It's simply treating the other person right. And when we do that, chances are enhanced that that driver might not react as angrily in their next encounter with a cyclist -- whether it's you, me, or someone else. I never said roll over and let drivers do whatever they want.

Paul Barnard 03-02-21 08:36 AM


Originally Posted by YellaFella (Post 21948261)
I believe riding through an intersection against a red light would qualify. And I also said that if safety is a concern, riding two abreast is fine. You seem to be purposely ignoring anything that doesn't fit the narrative you're pushing here, which is that I'm saying it's all cyclists' fault. I'm not sure how else to read your comments, to be honest.

Scenario: I arrive at a red light on my bicycle as the first vehicle. Traffic is stacking up behind me. If no cars are coming on the cross street, I can run the red light and make it to the place 3 blocks down the road where I can take a right onto a dedicated bike lane. If I do that, none of the cars behind me will be slowed as we all leave the intersection when the light turns green and none will be tempted to make a dangerous pass. Running the red light after making sure it's safe results in a safer and more harmonious traffic situation.

You would advocate that I wait at the light to "raise the public's perception" while doing so costs motorists time and compromises my safety. I don't engage in that kind of appeasement.

Paul Barnard 03-02-21 08:37 AM


Originally Posted by YellaFella (Post 21948268)
And when this is called for, absolutely we should do that. Cyclists are much more at risk than drivers in every situation. Our lives are at stake, not theirs. I have never said anything to the contrary.

Your blog says we "should obey all laws." Which one is it?

YellaFella 03-02-21 08:37 AM


Originally Posted by pdlamb (Post 21948280)
I wonder if OP is a cyclist, or if he (or she) just likes to stir the pot.

This is something akin to posting on an NRA site, "I saw on the news last night that someone was killed or injured when they were shot. Fellow gun owners, we have to be better. Check out my blog and post back here whether you agree or not."

It's fairly unlikely that I'd start a cycling blog and publish multiple times per week if I wasn't a cyclist. And why can't I have a blog, and respond here as well? Can't a person do both?

downhillmaster 03-02-21 08:37 AM

I recently watched a single YouTube video of two joggers crossing in the middle of the street.
I immediately went onto a large running forum and asked everyone there to not be a jerk when running.
I feel better about myself for doing this.
I in fact believe that what I did could be considered almost heroic.
I’m even thinking of blogging about it :thumb:

Koyote 03-02-21 08:37 AM

I don't come here to be scolded.

Kabuki12 03-02-21 08:42 AM


Originally Posted by Paul Barnard (Post 21948161)
Change that to "can be." How do you define "blowing through." That wording is often used but there seems to be no consensus on what it means.

No, I meant IS very dangerous, and blowing through , as I meant it , is ignoring the stop sign or light. Failure to stop at a stop sign or red light in California, even if one doesn't care about the safety aspect, is against the law and a ticket in California ain't cheap. I had a friend get a ticket for riding on the wrong side of the street.

Paul Barnard 03-02-21 08:43 AM

Advocacy vs appeasement.

Advocacy: "Cyclists may break the law at times in a way that enhances their safety and the overall flow of traffic."

Appeasement: We should "not be jerks and obey all laws."

pdlamb 03-02-21 08:44 AM


Originally Posted by Koyote (Post 21948299)
I don't come here to be scolded.

Don't be a jerk on the forum.

Paul Barnard 03-02-21 08:46 AM


Originally Posted by Kabuki12 (Post 21948308)
No, I meant IS very dangerous, and blowing through , as I meant it , is ignoring the stop sign or light. .

If by ignoring it, you mean proceed without caution, then I agree. If you mean not remaining at a red light until it turns green IS dangerous, rather than MAY BE dangerous, then you are wrong.

Kabuki12 03-02-21 08:48 AM


Originally Posted by Paul Barnard (Post 21948321)
If by ignoring it, you mean proceed without caution, then I agree. If you mean not remaining at a red light until it turns green IS dangerous, rather than MAY BE dangerous, then you are wrong.

You can tell that to the judge when you contest the ticket, I will wait until it is green.

indyfabz 03-02-21 09:09 AM


Originally Posted by Kabuki12 (Post 21948325)
You can tell that to the judge when you contest the ticket, I will wait until it is green.

Even in jurisdictions that have adopted the Idaho rule? A couple of years ago I had to chuckle at myself when I realized I was waiting for a green light in a small Idaho town when there was no traffic around. Then I thought of all the the stop signs I had stopped for earlier. In my defense, I had just crossed the border from Montana a few hours earlier and forgot about the state's law.

indyfabz 03-02-21 09:15 AM


Originally Posted by Paul Barnard (Post 21948256)
Sometimes breaking the law is the most respectful thing I can do for motorists, and it can enhance my safety as well. Motorists who are not cyclists are too ignorant to realize this. They are often the most vocal with their complaints.

IKR. Back in 2017 I was riding the GAP trail in PA. I was in the town of W. Newton walking my bike. Wanted to cross a street and waited at the intersection for the light to turn green, like a good citizen. Light turns green and I enter the crosswalk. "Karen" nearly hits me trying to make a left turn. She yells profanity at me. The only thing she could have been pissed at was that I hadn't crossed on red and thus got in her way.

Kabuki12 03-02-21 09:22 AM


Originally Posted by indyfabz (Post 21948379)
Even in jurisdictions that have adopted the Idaho rule? A couple of years ago I had to chuckle at myself when I realized I was waiting for a green light in a small Idaho town when there was no traffic around. Then I thought of all the the stop signs I had stopped for earlier. In my defense, I had just crossed the border from Montana a few hours earlier and forgot about the state's law.

Having not ridden in Idaho I wouldn't have known either. I guess "When in Rome"....... I was in Chicago at a trade show with my wife and at a very busy intersection while strolling downtown, we started to cross a street in a crosswalk that was not protected by a light. A man ran up to us and stopped us . He said"what is wrong with you? you must not be from around here" . I said no , we're from California. He said that in Chicago pedestrians don't have the right of way and we would be run over! Who da thunk?

shmily_dana 03-02-21 09:33 AM

A couple of years ago, my son and I monitored traffic at a four-way stop. We scored how well a vehicle made a legal stop if it was the only vehicle at the intersection. About 15% made no stop at all. Mainly they were making a right turn. About 25% made a full stop with a 2-3 second duration and did not enter the crosswalk before they made the stop. The rest was a mix of rolling stops and/or stops made in the crosswalk or bicycle lane. We only saw one bicycle rider (he rolled thru a right turn). There was another family of bicycle riders. The Dad took half the kids on a box turn in one direction and the Mom took the other group in a box turn in the other direction. I would have liked to been able to score more bicycle riders. I ride on that same street and sometime count the cars coming from side streets. I think it more like a 50-50 chance to see a car stop. I am surprised. This is Arizona, and the weather is nice enough that there is always someone out walking, running, or bicycle riding in our subdivision.

Paul Barnard 03-02-21 09:52 AM


Originally Posted by Kabuki12 (Post 21948325)
You can tell that to the judge when you contest the ticket, I will wait until it is green.

Glad to see you abandon the "running stops IS dangerous" argument.

indyfabz 03-02-21 10:01 AM


Originally Posted by Kabuki12 (Post 21948410)
Having not ridden in Idaho I wouldn't have known either.

I think another state recently adopted the saw laws. You can treat stop signs as yield signs. You have to come to a complete stop and red lights, but then you can proceed through is it's safe to do so. When Idaho first adopted it, car/bike accidents dropped then leveled off.

I take the same approach here in Philly. Makes total sense because the city has so many narrow streets. Allows a cyclist to stay ahead of auto traffic when there is no bike lane.

Kabuki12 03-02-21 10:01 AM


Originally Posted by Paul Barnard (Post 21948466)
Glad to see you abandon the "running stops IS dangerous" argument.

I didn't, I just disagree with you. When someone disagrees with you , it does not mean they are wrong, OK? We CAN disagree , it is fine.


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