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MarcusT 12-13-18 01:44 PM

Am I not worthy?
 
I have toured numerous times. Never more than a week and I have not conquered continents. I love to ride, I love to be independent and I love earning the right to enjoy a view/sight/panorama because I sweated, grunted and burned my way to get there.
I also like to watch other tourers, particularly on Youtube. Their trips throughout different parts of the planet. Camping, Warm Showers, B&B, it does not matter. However, When I see that many of these tourers have particular "non-habits", I feel inadequate. I speak of the vegan-tourers, the tea-totaler-tourers, the sleeping-on-the-ground without shelter types.

Yes, I am beer drinking, omnivore. At the end of a long day of riding, I want a cold one with a great steak. No, I am not a svelte rider. 225 lbs with some healthy love handles, but still, I love to ride.
Should I feel inadequate because of my dietary vices? or should I pity the fool who sleeps in a non-breathable sack (because it weighs 1/2 lb) with a cold bowl of beans after a 100 km ride?
Everyone to their own, but do these people accomplish more because they have renounced the "evils" of humanity?
-Would I be able to finish the ultimate tour?
-Is it personal satisfaction, or is it bragging rights?
-Is it physical conditioning or the desire to arrive?
Would I be able to tour with a rider who eats a salad with mineral water while I am pounding back a good cabernet and chewing on a porterhouse?
What say you?

BTW, no need to lecture me about my insecurities, if they are real, at this point you won't be able to extinguish them.

:cheers:

indyfabz 12-13-18 02:12 PM

O.K. I'll bite. (Pun intended.)

If you can't find anything better to pound in NE Italy than a cabernet, I'd say you have more important things to worry about.

jefnvk 12-13-18 02:34 PM

No, because many of us do our tours, maybe talk about it on here or in person with friends, and go on with our lives. Most people don't have a lifestyle (and in many cases, a brand if not an outright product) they are trying to peddle, and as such, evangelizing others via YouTube simply isn't a priority. You'd never know my wife has been on a couple Euro bike tours, if I didn't talk about it for her.

And what @indyfabz said.

fietsbob 12-13-18 02:38 PM

Cabin Fever?
 
Not.even 1st day of winter yet,that is still 8 days away..



boomhauer 12-13-18 03:46 PM

My touring life is too embarrassing to be viewed on YouTube.

I generally buy a six pack for the evening camping. (hey, a six pack in america cost about the same as three individual beers)
I defecate in the woods without digging a hole

I don't train for any tour.....ever.
And on top of everything i don't wear bicycle specific clothing (except for a helmet)
I've been doing it this way for 30 years

You are worthy (or both of us aren't)

bikemig 12-13-18 03:49 PM


Originally Posted by indyfabz (Post 20703397)
O.K. I'll bite. (Pun intended.)

If you can't find anything better to pound in NE Italy than a cabernet, I'd say you have more important things to worry about.

Drinking beer in Italy does make it seem like the OP may not be quite "tour worthy." :)

alan s 12-13-18 04:16 PM

Same goes for Porterhouse steak. In Italy? Veal maybe.

Tourist in MSN 12-13-18 04:44 PM


Originally Posted by MarcusT (Post 20703343)
...
Yes, I am beer drinking, omnivore. At the end of a long day of riding, I want a cold one with a great steak. ...
:cheers:

Yeah, you are not worthy.

https://cimg5.ibsrv.net/gimg/bikefor...a1ee17b3d9.jpg

djb 12-13-18 04:48 PM

Im too old now to be concerned about the very small percentage of riders who are totally hard core and have never compared myself to harder, faster, stronger riders--- now or nearly 30 years ago when I started trying out this bike travelling thing and realized that I am very average in ability.
Lets face it, the vast majority of folks who do bike touring are regular folks, who need to sleep well, eat well and do reasonable distances per day.
Having a good time is the whole idea, so thats the only thing that matters.

there, does that make you feel better? If you appreciate my advice, please send the Mondials over.....

antokelly 12-13-18 06:35 PM

djb hit the nail on the head .

BlarneyHammer 12-13-18 07:07 PM

My line of thinking is, if your favorite part of bike touring is luxury coffee, restaurants, warm beds, why bother with the tour? Why not stay in town and eat at restaurants, drink expensive coffee, and sleep at home, or in a hotel? You'd be happier. The point of bike touring (and hiking), to me, is to simplify life and come closer to understanding how little you need, not how much.

But there are others that think bike touring is supposed to be fun (and it is!), and to them fun means beer, restaurants, luxury coffee, etc. If you're not having fun, why go? Which is...almost the exact same question I have.

It's the same line of thinking, but with opposite conclusions. Draw your own.

Happy Feet 12-13-18 07:22 PM

Own your lifestyle or change it - but don't drag others into it in such a passive aggressive manner. No judging, only stating the fact that your whole post is one big insecure backhanded attack on people who make different choices than you.

Fwiw: Non drinking, vegetarian, physically active, low comfort tourer. Never felt the need to ask if I was as worthy as any other random people I see on the interwebs.

Just do your thing.

Paul Barnard 12-13-18 08:01 PM


Originally Posted by indyfabz (Post 20703397)
O.K. I'll bite. (Pun intended.)

If you can't find anything better to pound in NE Italy than a cabernet, I'd say you have more important things to worry about.

like

jonc123 12-13-18 08:49 PM

Beer is good for lunch too! Do you have Bloody Mary's in Italy? Nice way to start the day sometimes, good with brunch.

jefnvk 12-13-18 10:17 PM


Originally Posted by BlarneyHammer (Post 20703798)
My line of thinking is, if your favorite part of bike touring is luxury coffee, restaurants, warm beds, why bother with the tour? Why not stay in town and eat at restaurants, drink expensive coffee, and sleep at home, or in a hotel? You'd be happier. The point of bike touring (and hiking), to me, is to simplify life and come closer to understanding how little you need, not how much.

But there are others that think bike touring is supposed to be fun (and it is!), and to them fun means beer, restaurants, luxury coffee, etc. If you're not having fun, why go? Which is...almost the exact same question I have.

It's the same line of thinking, but with opposite conclusions. Draw your own.

Yep. TO me, I ask the folks who value nothing but utter simplicity and like stealth camping in the woods why even bother with the bike, just go hike in the woods and make it even more simple and close to nature. But, its what makes them happy and doesn't affect me, so I hope they have a good time doing it!

Honestly, I'm the top line, and I enjoy it because it takes vacations I was more or less already enjoying and adds cycling to them, with the bonus of seeing lands and towns I'd normally blow through on a bus or train or car.

boomhauer 12-13-18 10:54 PM


Originally Posted by BlarneyHammer (Post 20703798)
My line of thinking is, if your favorite part of bike touring is luxury coffee, restaurants, warm beds, why bother with the tour? Why not stay in town and eat at restaurants, drink expensive coffee, and sleep at home, or in a hotel? You'd be happier. The point of bike touring (and hiking), to me, is to simplify life and come closer to understanding how little you need, not how much.

Touring did make me realize "how little you need".
It was astonishing.
But now that I'm over it I like expensive coffee and cheap beer on tour.

MarcusT 12-13-18 10:57 PM


Originally Posted by indyfabz (Post 20703397)
O.K. I'll bite. (Pun intended.)

If you can't find anything better to pound in NE Italy than a cabernet, I'd say you have more important things to worry about.

Don't dis the cab, they make some excellent vintages here. :D

MarcusT 12-13-18 10:58 PM


Originally Posted by fietsbob (Post 20703438)
Not.even 1st day of winter yet,that is still 8 days away..

It's the darkness

MarcusT 12-13-18 11:01 PM


Originally Posted by alan s (Post 20703593)
Same goes for Porterhouse steak. In Italy? Veal maybe.

Google "la fiorentina" steak

MarcusT 12-13-18 11:05 PM


Originally Posted by djb (Post 20703651)
Im too old now to be concerned about the very small percentage of riders who are totally hard core and have never compared myself to harder, faster, stronger riders--- now or nearly 30 years ago when I started trying out this bike travelling thing and realized that I am very average in ability.
Lets face it, the vast majority of folks who do bike touring are regular folks, who need to sleep well, eat well and do reasonable distances per day.
Having a good time is the whole idea, so thats the only thing that matters.

there, does that make you feel better? If you appreciate my advice, please send the Mondials over.....

Kind of makes me feel better. After all I can still enjoy the luxuries even when I don't ride, just with a little guilt (very little).

The tires are in the mail :D

MarcusT 12-13-18 11:10 PM


Originally Posted by Happy Feet (Post 20703810)
Own your lifestyle or change it - but don't drag others into it in such a passive aggressive manner. No judging, only stating the fact that your whole post is one big insecure backhanded attack on people who make different choices than you.

Just do your thing.

Really? I thought this post was all about me
BTW, I think you missed the previous BTW

Happy Feet 12-13-18 11:32 PM

No it's about creating a false sense of judgement between two styles of touring that only exists in your mind. Try describing how YOU like to tour without the drama.

As someone in the "other" category you are not so subtly trying to run down in a backhandwd way I don't appreciate the dis. That's the only thing not worthy - of a mature adult.

Rowan 12-13-18 11:33 PM


Originally Posted by MarcusT (Post 20704041)
Really? I thought this post was all about me
BTW, I think you missed the previous BTW

He's really OK. Trust me on that.

His reference has been more about some who post on BFs with derision of long established members who see no reason to comply with certain aspects of cycling development. It is at the point now where some just why we bother posting anything all.

MarcusT 12-13-18 11:35 PM


Originally Posted by Happy Feet (Post 20704047)
No it's about creating a false sense of judgement between two styles of touring that only exists in your mind. Try describing how YOU like to tour without the drama.

As someone in the "other" category you are not so subtly trying to run down in a backhandwd way I don't appreciate the dis. That's the only thing not worthy - of a mature adult.

Apologies, if you feel dissed.
Again, it's about me

Machka 12-14-18 03:49 AM


Originally Posted by MarcusT (Post 20703343)
I have toured numerous times. Never more than a week and I have not conquered continents. I love to ride, I love to be independent and I love earning the right to enjoy a view/sight/panorama because I sweated, grunted and burned my way to get there.
I also like to watch other tourers, particularly on Youtube. Their trips throughout different parts of the planet. Camping, Warm Showers, B&B, it does not matter. However, When I see that many of these tourers have particular "non-habits", I feel inadequate. I speak of the vegan-tourers, the tea-totaler-tourers, the sleeping-on-the-ground without shelter types.

Yes, I am beer drinking, omnivore. At the end of a long day of riding, I want a cold one with a great steak. No, I am not a svelte rider. 225 lbs with some healthy love handles, but still, I love to ride.
Should I feel inadequate because of my dietary vices? or should I pity the fool who sleeps in a non-breathable sack (because it weighs 1/2 lb) with a cold bowl of beans after a 100 km ride?
Everyone to their own, but do these people accomplish more because they have renounced the "evils" of humanity?
-Would I be able to finish the ultimate tour?
-Is it personal satisfaction, or is it bragging rights?
-Is it physical conditioning or the desire to arrive?
Would I be able to tour with a rider who eats a salad with mineral water while I am pounding back a good cabernet and chewing on a porterhouse?
What say you?

BTW, no need to lecture me about my insecurities, if they are real, at this point you won't be able to extinguish them.

:cheers:

Live your own life.


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