It's best to let it all out, then re-read what you have written and understand why you said those things. Just try your best to ignore what other people say when it comes to where you ride as long as it's safe. Just like on the internet you meet the most deranged and outspoken people you will meet them in the deepest depths of hel- I mean that part of the city.
Take a long ride to the countryside when you can and have a nice meal.