Originally Posted by
delbiker1
That really is up to you. Taking care of the others in your life is, of course, very important. No less important, is taking care of yourself. That is the best way to enable you to do the taking care of others long term. Looking at it form that aspect may be helpful to you.
absolutely
and small kids absolutely are dependent on someone to help them (at some age depending on each child they start being able to take care of themselves).