I live in central Ohio. I commute almost everyday and have toured less frequently. The key to my survival has been my attitude. I ride as knowing that I am entitled to share the road. I am respectful and cautious, but I refuse to relinquish my right to use the roads. I ride as though I am driving my car, simply at a slower speed. That allows me to ride anywhere (except turnpikes and freeways) and more. I tend to prefer less traffic, but I don't hesistate to take a lane. I may irritate drivers, but I wll be seen. In 15 years I have never been in an accident and I have never been cited.
Riding as though you are a second class citizen is giving in to those who believe cyclists cause incovenience and should be confined to multi-use paths, and even the sidewalks. Sorry, I won't play.