As I will continue losing weight ill definitely work on continuing to lower the stem until I can get it about level with the seat.
In honesty, with this sort of riding position, I think I'm best off with some sort of hybrid flat bar commuter bike.
I'm really enjoying the performance of the drop bars, but I'm going to eventually convert back to flat bars because I found some riser bars which are exactly my shoulder width. These drop bars are too narrow for me. I was looking around for some wider gravel/touring drop bars but they flare our only at the drops. Im mostly in the hoods.