I solo ride 99% of the time, great view, lots of pulling.
This is not helpful regarding your question but neither are random etiquette anecdotes from people that are not riding with the exact group you are with.
Why not talk about it with your club people to take out the element of WTF you are experiencing?
I plan on doing that but I want to hear what the “normal pull” is before I go off on some of them. That was my question. You as a mostly solo only rider have zero input here.
Thanks for your help…..