Based on your smaller hands, dislike for deep drops and requirement to be more comfortable in the drops I think the standout choice would be Deda's, either Newtons or 215's with shallow drop/Italian curves. These are shallow, classic curve bars that suit smaller hands better and will be far more comfortable in the drops. I havent used them myself as the narowest size at 40cm is still too wide for me as I use 38 cm bars with a classic curve but I have spoken to others who use them and realy like them.
They find them a little squeezy with the shallow drops but don't plan to change back anytime soon.
Regards, Anthony