Originally Posted by Mojo31

Does it really matter what Mrs. GJ thinks? Will she leave you over it? Will your world come crashing down around you?

You've been working hard for the past 40 years to support Mrs. GJ and the family, all for likely little to no thanks and a lot of expectation. Time to treat yourself right and reward yourself for all of that hard work and sacrifice for the others.

Just tell her that I said it is the right thing for you to do at the right time. All will be good.