I am similar size as OP. It is a pain. Straps are always too short but at least they are angled properly on my preferred Assos bibs. I like a pair of le Col bibs for the pad and the straps are a little longer but unlike the Assos they run over my nipples making them less than ideal. The straps are tight perhaps to lesson the load on core muscles. Long Ralpha bibs are just in the legs, not torso if I understand correctly. What tall riders need are longer straps. Not sure if any mfgs offer such an option or at least I have never found it