People honking at me triggers my RAGE
12-12-15, 12:25 PM
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People honking at me triggers my RAGE
I'm a nice person but disrespecting me, or being plan ignorant takes me from cool and collected to raging mad man in a matter of miliseconds.. Literally almost been in a few fist fights during my travels.. Some probably would have been if I could have caught them..
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
12-12-15, 12:26 PM
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Honking is Good...It Means they See You...Just wave at them.
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12-12-15, 01:02 PM
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I'm a nice person but disrespecting me, or being plan ignorant takes me from cool and collected to raging mad man in a matter of miliseconds.. Literally almost been in a few fist fights during my travels.. Some probably would have been if I could have caught them..
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
There's been a couple of videos posted recently about drivers doing dumb things. In one case the driver had honked (apparently in annoyance) at a cyclist while passing them. The cyclist approached the car at the next intersection and calmly asked the driver what the problem was. I think that's fine but what the end result is we don't know. Will the driver be more considerate and less likely to honk in the same situation, or will they be even more inclined to be hostile to cyclists?
While some disagreed, I see that sort of conversation as a reasonable thing for a cyclist to do. At that point though I would forget it. It's not worth my energy to worry about it beyond that. If you're milliseconds away from raging though, I would skip the conversation and realize that it's up to you whether or not you let something like that ruin your day.
12-12-15, 01:09 PM
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I just wave and smile. If the honk was meant as a friendly warning, as many doubtlessly are, no harm done to either party. If the honk was meant to piss you off, the wave and smile piss the honker off.
12-12-15, 01:19 PM
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I'm a nice person but disrespecting me, or being plan ignorant takes me from cool and collected to raging mad man in a matter of miliseconds.. Literally almost been in a few fist fights during my travels.. Some probably would have been if I could have caught them..
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
12-12-15, 01:26 PM
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I give a friendly wave to show my thanks for them being careful to announce their presence. I'mtoo much of an idiot to get the actual message and get angry.
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Lots of good suggestions, given the reality is that you are suffering and bound to suffer more if you do not find a healthy way to deal with this reality of our world.
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Get an AirZound and honk back!
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Act like you recognize them as a friend of yours. You can think to yourself "this idiot is bound to fall for this" but put on the act. Exuberant wave, smile etc. Hopefully they'll go the rest of the day wondering if they were honking and/or mouthing off at a neighbor or someone who knows them at work.
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I'm a nice person but disrespecting me, or being plan ignorant takes me from cool and collected to raging mad man in a matter of miliseconds.. Literally almost been in a few fist fights during my travels.. Some probably would have been if I could have caught them..
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
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The problem isn't the people who make you mad, the world is full of them. the problem is your own inability to take nonsense like this in stride. If minor grief like this makes you flip, you're in for a miserable, short stress filled life. Once you decide that you don't care, it gets much easier even if nothing actually changes.
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Act like you recognize them as a friend of yours. You can think to yourself "this idiot is bound to fall for this" but put on the act. Exuberant wave, smile etc. Hopefully they'll go the rest of the day wondering if they were honking and/or mouthing off at a neighbor or someone who knows them at work.
12-12-15, 04:59 PM
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this is my way of looking at it. Ignoring it is also perfectly acceptable, what if they didnt' mean to honk at you?
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I'm a nice person but disrespecting me, or being plan ignorant takes me from cool and collected to raging mad man in a matter of miliseconds.. Literally almost been in a few fist fights during my travels.. Some probably would have been if I could have caught them..
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
Whats the best way to deal with this? I have zero tolerance for the imbeciles
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