What's With All the Liars?
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These are the rules of the game. When you respond to ads in classifieds, you have to keep that in mind before you even begin. Otherwise, you will see "liars" everywhere.
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Sigh... How many times has it been explained to overexplained to people already? It is one of the best-known facts of life: about 75% of the people who advertise in classifieds do so exclusively out of loneliness. They are not planning to sell anything. They don't have a room to rent. They seek human interaction, nothing else.
These are the rules of the game. When you respond to ads in classifieds, you have to keep that in mind before you even begin. Otherwise, you will see "liars" everywhere.
These are the rules of the game. When you respond to ads in classifieds, you have to keep that in mind before you even begin. Otherwise, you will see "liars" everywhere.
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Sigh... How many times has it been explained to overexplained to people already? It is one of the best-known facts of life: about 75% of the people who advertise in classifieds do so exclusively out of loneliness. They are not planning to sell anything. They don't have a room to rent. They seek human interaction, nothing else.
These are the rules of the game. When you respond to ads in classifieds, you have to keep that in mind before you even begin. Otherwise, you will see "liars" everywhere.
These are the rules of the game. When you respond to ads in classifieds, you have to keep that in mind before you even begin. Otherwise, you will see "liars" everywhere.
Any actual data? Or are you as lonely person whop puts ads in papers to meet people?
You know, there has always been a section in the Classifieds, "People seeking people" and many varieties on that.
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Sigh... How many times has it been explained to overexplained to people already? It is one of the best-known facts of life: about 75% of the people who advertise in classifieds do so exclusively out of loneliness. They are not planning to sell anything. They don't have a room to rent. They seek human interaction, nothing else.
These are the rules of the game. When you respond to ads in classifieds, you have to keep that in mind before you even begin. Otherwise, you will see "liars" everywhere.
These are the rules of the game. When you respond to ads in classifieds, you have to keep that in mind before you even begin. Otherwise, you will see "liars" everywhere.
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Sigh... How many times has it been explained to overexplained to people already? It is one of the best-known facts of life: about 75% of the people who advertise in classifieds do so exclusively out of loneliness. They are not planning to sell anything. They don't have a room to rent. They seek human interaction, nothing else.
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Just got back from my third trip looking at bikes without buying the bike. Why? Because when I asked, "Is it 100% rideable as-is?", I got a "Yes" each time. I even specifically ask about the breaks working, wheels straight, derailleur working, gears shifting. Each time I get there, those things don't work. Last time he told me the bike was 18.5 inches. I get there and it's 16.5. IT HAD 16.5" ON A STICKER ON THE FRAME. Wow. I'm not mad or frustrated, I understand I can always go to a store and buy a new bike, but geez. I guess they think I won't test ride it? Or maybe they don't think.
I think every bike I've bought used has at least needed a servicing, occasionally a new tire and the story is almost always "I bought it, used it a few times and then it's been taking up space in the shed". No malice, just no interest.
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OR more excitingly, they'd ride it like that. Your idea of rideable and theirs may not be the same.
I think every bike I've bought used has at least needed a servicing, occasionally a new tire and the story is almost always "I bought it, used it a few times and then it's been taking up space in the shed". No malice, just no interest.
I think every bike I've bought used has at least needed a servicing, occasionally a new tire and the story is almost always "I bought it, used it a few times and then it's been taking up space in the shed". No malice, just no interest.
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I must admit I get frustrated by buyers. BB7s aren't the most common of brakes around here (South Korea), but they're certainly not unknown, and you can use the pads for Juicy 5s or whatever as well, they're the same. I sold a bike with BB7s and the pads seemingly destroyed minds, but the buyer was going to the type of shop that deals in the local version of Walmart bikes and was being vibed away from the higher end MTB places that would actually have the pads. So I tell her she needs BB7 pads, but then some guy at a shop orders BB5 pads. I get her melting down on the phone screaming in frustration about how the BB7 pads don't fit and finally get her to send me a photo of the BB5 pads that the shop guy insists are BB7 pads. Just nonsense due to incompetence, language barriers and lack of understanding. Poor woman finally got new BB7 pads, and then worked out that the old pads were still just fine, she just hadn't been adjusting the pads for wear. I get these meltdowns because she thinks I have sold her a dud bike, when she just needed to watch a couple of YouTube videos or go to better shops.
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Or are you saying the brakes did nothing, you couldn't change any gears and the tyres wouldn't inflate at all? Because whilst I've seen an awful lot of bikes I'd want to fix before using, I haven't seen many that bad.
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People on this forum should have enough knowledge and understanding about bikes to not have to rely on the seller’s representation at all.
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got a wheel set off eBay... advertised with tires I've been meaning to try. Wheelset comes and no tires to be found ? Message the seller..nothing..let another day pass by and message again..nothing. Open a case on eBay after the 3rd day of no response and I get oh I removed them so the sealant would not dry out. I'm thinking ok so why not throw them back in the box?
Seller is going to send tires now, but I fully expect them to have pin holes in them or something.
Seller is going to send tires now, but I fully expect them to have pin holes in them or something.
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Sigh... How many times has it been explained to overexplained to people already? It is one of the best-known facts of life: about 75% of the people who advertise in classifieds do so exclusively out of loneliness. They are not planning to sell anything. They don't have a room to rent. They seek human interaction, nothing else.
These are the rules of the game. When you respond to ads in classifieds, you have to keep that in mind before you even begin. Otherwise, you will see "liars" everywhere.
These are the rules of the game. When you respond to ads in classifieds, you have to keep that in mind before you even begin. Otherwise, you will see "liars" everywhere.
So I should restore a ladies bike and advertise that ?
(just to be clear - that's a joke)
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This seems to be the root of OP's frustration. With any item, buying and selling for a profit is a hard row to hoe w/o a knowledge base. Got to be able to sort the promising from the junk.and resolve minor issues like tires and cables w/o drama.
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Most people bulk at it, want too much followed by any excuse they can think of to justify it.
I have learned to deal with most of these people by finding a compromise we can both live with. But it takes a lot of diplomacy and reasoning.
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Yeah. I read it. You asked dumb questions that the sellers may or may not have had a clue about, when you should have been making those judgments yourself as a presumably knowledgeable cyclist. Then you determined they were liars. Geez.
I admit that maybe you’re not as knowledgeable as I assume, and needed to rely on the answers of strangers.
I admit that maybe you’re not as knowledgeable as I assume, and needed to rely on the answers of strangers.
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Sorry that makes no sense. Why wouldn't you test ride it? How does researching take the place of test riding the specific bike? That makes no sense. A thorough look isn't going to replace a test ride either. But hey whatever makes you happy
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Yeah. I read it. You asked dumb questions that the sellers may or may not have had a clue about, when you should have been making those judgments yourself as a presumably knowledgeable cyclist. Then you determined they were liars. Geez.
I admit that maybe you’re not as knowledgeable as I assume, and needed to rely on the answers of strangers.
I admit that maybe you’re not as knowledgeable as I assume, and needed to rely on the answers of strangers.
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Do yourself a favor and learn not to believe what sellers tell you, and learn enough about bikes to be able to judge them yourself when you see them.
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Are you kidding? I’m gonna trust some schmoe’s ascertation of brake function? Who does that??Some people don’t even know what a derailleur is. And to them, they squeeze the brake lever and think that’s sufficient.
Do yourself a favor and learn not to believe what sellers tell you, and learn enough about bikes to be able to judge them yourself when you see them.
Do yourself a favor and learn not to believe what sellers tell you, and learn enough about bikes to be able to judge them yourself when you see them.
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