19-year-old driver hits and kills cyclist while downloading ringtones
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Originally Posted by That Forum Guy
Why are y'all dragging up this old dead horse to beat again?
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Originally Posted by billh
. . . because people we identify with continue to die senseless deaths?
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Originally Posted by That Forum Guy
And bickering on the forums solves what?
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Fair enough. And I'm hoping everyone will respect the fact that Joe owns and runs the forums, and would not appreciate bikeforums.net being used as a platform for negative actions that may cause him any undue legal grief.
If you want to write someone, send them a letter or email. If you want to express indignity, go ahead. But please don't turn this into a big ugly mess, pitting members against each other. We want to maintain a sense of community, even if we don't agree.
If you want to write someone, send them a letter or email. If you want to express indignity, go ahead. But please don't turn this into a big ugly mess, pitting members against each other. We want to maintain a sense of community, even if we don't agree.
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Originally Posted by slvoid
Can we beat her to death then?
I say we duct tape some hands-free earphones to her, then amp up her ringtone to lethal decibels.
We'll draw spokes to decide who gets to make the deadly phone call.
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Originally Posted by That Forum Guy
Fair enough. And I'm hoping everyone will respect the fact that Joe owns and runs the forums, and would not appreciate bikeforums.net being used as a platform for negative actions that may cause him any undue legal grief.
If you want to write someone, send them a letter or email. If you want to express indignity, go ahead. But please don't turn this into a big ugly mess, pitting members against each other. We want to maintain a sense of community, even if we don't agree.
If you want to write someone, send them a letter or email. If you want to express indignity, go ahead. But please don't turn this into a big ugly mess, pitting members against each other. We want to maintain a sense of community, even if we don't agree.
However, I'm trying it hard to find anyone that would disagree that it's a good idea to remove the threat she places on society, permenantly, and the stupid little DA who's too afraid to prosecute. (Write to the higher up's too people, even the DA works for somebody).
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Originally Posted by That Forum Guy
Fair enough. And I'm hoping everyone will respect the fact that Joe owns and runs the forums, and would not appreciate bikeforums.net being used as a platform for negative actions that may cause him any undue legal grief.
If you want to write someone, send them a letter or email. If you want to express indignity, go ahead. But please don't turn this into a big ugly mess, pitting members against each other. We want to maintain a sense of community, even if we don't agree.
If you want to write someone, send them a letter or email. If you want to express indignity, go ahead. But please don't turn this into a big ugly mess, pitting members against each other. We want to maintain a sense of community, even if we don't agree.
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Originally Posted by 2oz
as much as I hate her for quoting lyrics in her response to the letter-writers, that was a well-written entry to her blog. At least something well written for a 16-year-old that's dealing with these things.
Doesn't make me feel any more sympathy for her. She should never have gotten off as lightly as she did.
Doesn't make me feel any more sympathy for her. She should never have gotten off as lightly as she did.
She's 19, not 16 and I thought what she said was just lame. Are you giving her points for grammar?
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You all have rights of free speech here. You just need to abide the community guidelines. No yelling "Fire" in Joe's theater.
I agree that the DA took the path of least resistance. I'm just here to keep the peace on the forums. Now put the glove down, and back away slowly.
I agree that the DA took the path of least resistance. I'm just here to keep the peace on the forums. Now put the glove down, and back away slowly.
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Originally Posted by That Forum Guy
You all have rights of free speech here. You just need to abide the community guidelines. No yelling "Fire" in Joe's theater.
I agree that the DA took the path of least resistance. I'm just here to keep the peace on the forums. Now put the glove down, and back away slowly.
I agree that the DA took the path of least resistance. I'm just here to keep the peace on the forums. Now put the glove down, and back away slowly.
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Originally Posted by Mars
It's very difficult for me to see how Joe or the forums can be held legally responsible for people responding to this outrage. The forum, nor its staff, are encouraging these actions.
So please take the constructive path here.
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Originally Posted by slvoid
Alright, let's all calm down... easy there.. won't wanna see anyone get gloved.
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Originally Posted by That Forum Guy
The forums are providing the platform. And that was never the intention. If someone suggests that a letter writing campaign be started, that would show the members working as a community towards good. But if someone is suggesting violence, that is against the guidelines, and will cause the thread to be closed and trashed.
So please take the constructive path here.
So please take the constructive path here.
I believe that discussing this issue, venting feelings, and providing information to each other is the natural and effective way for this group to formulate an action and understand what happened. That includes expressions of anger and outrage.
Letter writing campaign? How 20th century of you.
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Mars, I don't disagree. But you've been around long enough to know that things can get out of hand quickly around here.
Yes, letters. 10 people will have to handle it before it gets to her desk. She can delete emails pretty easily though.
Yes, letters. 10 people will have to handle it before it gets to her desk. She can delete emails pretty easily though.
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Believe me, if anyone's planning to take her out, they sure as hell won't announce it online.
Originally Posted by Mars
Hmmm. I don't believe that anyone here really thinks that slvoid wants this girl beaten to death. And I don't think that anyone would do something like that because slvoid says that. Internet communications are far more vibrant and direct than nearly anything else, and people speak their minds. If it looked like members were forming a lynch mob, then I guess that mod intervention is called for. This, at least in my judgement, is a good example of a community trying to get their heads around an outrage that demands a response. Any one of us could have been that guy killed. The tepid response by the perp and the legal system is stunning in its disregard for the victim.
I believe that discussing this issue, venting feelings, and providing information to each other is the natural and effective way for this group to formulate an action and understand what happened. That includes expressions of anger and outrage.
Letter writing campaign? How 20th century of you.
I believe that discussing this issue, venting feelings, and providing information to each other is the natural and effective way for this group to formulate an action and understand what happened. That includes expressions of anger and outrage.
Letter writing campaign? How 20th century of you.
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Originally Posted by Polaris43
She's 19, not 16 and I thought what she said was just lame. Are you giving her points for grammar?
Please pray for the family of Matt as they go through the Holidays and please pray for me because I am having a really hard time with this right now. I appreciate all those who have been here for me and who haven't judged me.
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Originally Posted by Blue Order
Julia Rietz: If you think you can't prove "wanton and willful" conduct, perhaps you should take a look at Gannon v. Kiel, 252 Ill.App. 550 (1929):
Evidence disclosing that the motorist did not look when it was his duty to be on guard and have his automobile under control at busy street intersection where he was bound to know that pedestrians might be crossing, and that he failed to see pedestrian until his automobile collided with her, supported finding that motorist was guilty of willful and wanton negligence.
I can come up with more cases, if that's not enough for you, Ms. Rietz.
Evidence disclosing that the motorist did not look when it was his duty to be on guard and have his automobile under control at busy street intersection where he was bound to know that pedestrians might be crossing, and that he failed to see pedestrian until his automobile collided with her, supported finding that motorist was guilty of willful and wanton negligence.
I can come up with more cases, if that's not enough for you, Ms. Rietz.
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Originally Posted by billh
This last sentence at least shows a little empathy for the family of the deceased.
Too little and the structure of the sentance indicates that her main concern is herself. She didn't even have the consideration to let the concern for Matt's family stand alone.
Instead, her thought process was "think about them but think about ME more, ok"? Sorry, but that's the way it reads to me and, apparently, many others on this forum.
I think most people are in agreement that what she's having a hard time with is what people think about her and not the fact that she killed a guy because a ring tone was more important than paying attention to the task at hand - driving. I hope that ring tone was worth it.
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What a sad story
This girl should be sent to jail for at least 5 years, and then have her license revoked for another 5 years after that. We do not need people like her on the road! How can you not see a cyclist? She should be charged with negligent homicide, or reckless endangerment leading to homicide, or whatever it is. I can't believe that she only got a slap on the wrist!!! She killed someone!
This girl should be sent to jail for at least 5 years, and then have her license revoked for another 5 years after that. We do not need people like her on the road! How can you not see a cyclist? She should be charged with negligent homicide, or reckless endangerment leading to homicide, or whatever it is. I can't believe that she only got a slap on the wrist!!! She killed someone!
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Originally Posted by vendorz
Uhhh, law student... now you might wanna go look up the law, which appears to require recklessness, not negligence.
Definition - adj
: characterized by the creation of a substantial and unjustifiable risk to the lives, safety, or rights of others and by a conscious and sometimes wanton and willful disregard for or indifference to that risk that is a gross deviation from the standard of care a reasonable person would exercise in like circumstances
[ ~ state of mind may be inferred from conduct]
Merriam-Webster's Dictionary of Law, 2001.
What element of recklessness is not present in this case?
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Originally Posted by vendorz
Uhhh, law student... now you might wanna go look up the law, which appears to require recklessness, not negligence.
I believe we need to ask ourselves if it is time to change the legal meaning of words like reckless and criminally negligent. Should we as a society (through our legal system) continue to simply consider it an "accident" if someone deliberately chooses to engage in highly distracting activities whilst driving and end up killing someone because of their lapse of attention? There are so many more than there used to be, and most of them are a simple matter of choice. We have decided that we no longer consider a death due to a drunk driver accidental. We tend to believe that drinking alcohol/using drugs and driving is something people choose to do. Is that what we want to decide for these other distractions?
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Originally Posted by 2oz
as much as I hate her for quoting lyrics in her response to the letter-writers, that was a well-written entry to her blog. At least something well written for a 19-year-old that's dealing with these things.
Doesn't make me feel any more sympathy for her. She should never have gotten off as lightly as she did.
Doesn't make me feel any more sympathy for her. She should never have gotten off as lightly as she did.
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Originally Posted by mike
Do you honestly believe she wrote the statement herself? Of course not. Her parents had lawyers write the speech for her. There is no way she would post something publicly with her own pen.
If I had hired lawyers and that nearly incoherent drivel is what they'd come up with, I'd fire them and not post it.
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Originally Posted by mastershake916
So what did the blog entry say?
Originally Posted by Jennifer 'the ringtone killer' Stark
Judgement (the finished blog)
"If judgement looms under every steeple
If lofty glances from lofty people
Can't see past her scarlet letter
AND WE NEVER EVEN MET HER"
-Casting Crowns, 'Does Anybody Hear Her'
Ok here it is.
This is what I've come up with.
I've been marked with a "scarlet letter". A red letter. Bright words that say, "Jennifer Stark, The killer of Matt Wilhelm."
My body or face hasn't been marked yet. Like, when people see me most of them don't realize that I AM Jennifer Stark, but if they heard my name that's a different story. My name has been marked and it sucks. A lot of people when they hear my name can make the "connection". Some keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves, others don't.
People have judged really fast. All they know about me is what happened September 2nd and 8th. They've never even met me and they've already made up their mind.
This accident has taught me a lot about judging to quickly. A few months before my accident, there was a accident similar to mine down the road from me. A woman was hit, while walking, by a car and killed. When it happened I said "How can someone just hit a person with their car? How could you be so careless?" And then it happened to me and I started to get judged the same way that I judged the man that hit that woman.
I really can't condemn anyone for judging, because I am guilty of it as well. I want to suggest that we all try to not judge so quickly.
Please pray for the family of Matt as they go through the Holidays and please pray for me because I am having a really hard time with this right now. I appreciate all those who have been here for me and who haven't judged me.
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