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Old 08-17-08, 07:45 PM
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New rider - Didn't take long for this to happen

I picked up my first road bike on Saturday and logged a quick 7 miles. It was a lot of fun. Sunday I get out and just plan on maybe 5-6 miles. As soon as I start off and hit a main road (not a lot of traffic, it goes between two neighborhoods) some jackass rolls the window down and yells "get on the sidewalk" as he drives off. I was pissed, only the second day into road biking, so I flipped him off. He kept driving.

I was a little surprised, because I live in Texas and see road bikers all over the place, I figured most people accepted the fact they should share the road.

So I know this has probably happened to everyone on here, but is this something I should expect like everytime I ride, or is it somewhat rare. i would hope most people are civil on sunday afternoon but I guess not.
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welcome to the club. i got called a jackass by a guy in a truck too, except he was telling me that i shoulda stopped. but i was crossing over train tracks and there was no stop sign. i have no idea wtf he was talking about. a week or two after that i had a beer can thrown at me while riding down the road. makes the rides interesting
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In busier areas, I'd say every other ride. Where I am, country roads, it's like twice a week. But yeah, don't let it get to you. They need to share the road. They're jealous of our sexy bodies in tight pants that they can't fit into
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Originally Posted by Sommy
I picked up my first road bike on Saturday and logged a quick 7 miles. It was a lot of fun. Sunday I get out and just plan on maybe 5-6 miles. As soon as I start off and hit a main road (not a lot of traffic, it goes between two neighborhoods) some jackass rolls the window down and yells "get on the sidewalk" as he drives off. I was pissed, only the second day into road biking, so I flipped him off. He kept driving.

I was a little surprised, because I live in Texas and see road bikers all over the place, I figured most people accepted the fact they should share the road.

So I know this has probably happened to everyone on here, but is this something I should expect like everytime I ride, or is it somewhat rare. i would hope most people are civil on sunday afternoon but I guess not.


I can't really tell you how much you are going to experience road rage. Depends on the area of the country(and area of your city for that matter), and the occurrence of it is going to ebb and flow. Might have three experiences in one week, and then not another one for a number of weeks or months.

I used to flip people off a bunch. I even approached a driver or two. Not anymore. It's not my job to police society. It's not my job to react to these people. My job is to ride my bike and to stay safe.

If you want to react to people, go for it. If it makes you feel better, great. Just realize that any reactions can lead to consequences, including death.

I just try to enjoy my ride and let that other crap just float right on by. FWIW, such people are never going to change.
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Don`t worry about it , more than likely he`s just having a bad day.
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Originally Posted by Sommy
I picked up my first road bike on Saturday and logged a quick 7 miles. It was a lot of fun. Sunday I get out and just plan on maybe 5-6 miles. As soon as I start off and hit a main road (not a lot of traffic, it goes between two neighborhoods) some jackass rolls the window down and yells "get on the sidewalk" as he drives off. I was pissed, only the second day into road biking, so I flipped him off. He kept driving.

I was a little surprised, because I live in Texas and see road bikers all over the place, I figured most people accepted the fact they should share the road.

So I know this has probably happened to everyone on here, but is this something I should expect like everytime I ride, or is it somewhat rare. i would hope most people are civil on sunday afternoon but I guess not.
Not every day. Sometimes i go weeks with no problems. then sometimes it is 2-3 times a day. Grow a thick skin and dont worry about it. Just try not to get run over.
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Doesn't happen often, more out in the sticks than in the city.

Don't flip the bird, it's not worth it, just smile and wave like he told you "nice ass" or chuckle at how dumb people can be.
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Old 08-17-08, 07:56 PM
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my friend was being yelled at by a guy in an SUV that told him to "get off his bike and come over here". the guy in the SUV was still driving. how, why would someone get off a bike when the person yelling is in a 3500 lb vehicle? my friend kept riding. just get used to people doing stupid stuff. even my now ex-roomate hates bikers, and my weight loss from cycling just made her hate cyclists more (yet she wouldn't even touch a bike- she said that sweating wasn't her thing.
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Old 08-17-08, 07:57 PM
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You can't have a 'Thin Skin' with this hobby.
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I've observed primarily two things related to this in my short time as a cyclist.
1) its usually a truck driver.
2) the more it happens, the less you care.

Keep doing what you're doing!
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the last abuse I got was from a fat guy and his b**ch on a Harley. Of all the people that you meet on the road, Youd think a motorcycle would be one to understand... but no, he gave me an enthusiatic (double pump) bird. and he was comming the other way.....go figure.

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Thanks for the insight, and some good stories to go along as well.

I suppose I'm just going to have to live with it as long as nobody tries to run me into a tree or something. I'm considering carrying a little "protection" with me just in case. Nothing leathel, just something for a little more security. Do you all carry anything with you?
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It just something that comes along with us as bikers riding. I actually laugh when ever people say things like that, cause it shows they have a lack of common sense and logical thinking. Around were I live their are some places that by law if you are on a bike you can not uses the side walk. Its more assuming and funny when it happens.

Just the other day a guy yelled at me when I was riding on on the local road outside my house. At the next light he had to stop cause the red, and I got off my bike and walked over to his driver side door. I knocked on the glass and he rolled down the window and said WHAT. This was a kid that I had seen before and was no older then 17. I informed him of the laws and their was no need to be a jerk in a very polite way. Well I get home and I figured out he lived a couple houses down and I knew his parents. I walked down to his house, had a talk with his parents and now the kid does not have a car for 3 months.

But anyway just watch out, cause they have a moving object that does a little more damage then we can do ha.
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read the gun thread. take action.
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Old 08-17-08, 09:19 PM
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On one of my first rides on a busy road (highway 50 for those that live in orlando) I was riding with a more experienced cyclist. A car drove buy shouted "F**K YOU!" and threw a water bottle out the window. My friend just flipped off the driver and shouted it back. It was really strange to see the routineness of it all. Since then I've become accustomed to it. It's just something that happens on most of my rides.
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Old 08-17-08, 09:32 PM
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Listen to your Ipod...you'll see the flying bottles but at least you'll miss the monologue.
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Carry confetti in a jersey pocket. Every time someone yells, toss a handful into the air in celebration. At least one of you will get a kick out of it.
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I used to flip people off, then the car came back and tossed a beer bottle at me, I don't flip off cars anymore. Cyclists pretty much have to concede to motorists. I have a pretty big ego, but also understand there's nothing I can do to defend myself against a pissed off driver.
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Originally Posted by furiousferret
I used to flip people off, then the car came back and tossed a beer bottle at me, I don't flip off cars anymore. Cyclists pretty much have to concede to motorists. I have a pretty big ego, but also understand there's nothing I can do to defend myself against a pissed off driver.
+1. The last time I flipped off a driver I regretted it.
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You're going to carry "a liitle protection"? What, you're gonna wear a comdom? Just bring common sense.
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As evil as this may sound, just don't let these people on the road stop you from doing it, if you see the same car(truck), as you keep on riding, at an accident or at the local fast food restaurant just smile and say hi...

oh, the feeling is good... i call it the "wtf is he smiling at me about?"...little do they know...
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Old 08-17-08, 10:51 PM
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You shouldn't expect it on every ride.

Riding in LA, there are parts of town where cyclists and motorists have worked themselves into an antagonistic frenzy, and the unsuspecting cyclists passing through might unwittingly fall prey to the battle of wills.

But through most of the city, I find that motorists generally give cyclists sufficient room to ride, and that they treat us with courtesy. There is the occasional un-alert driver who is just not paying attention, and consequently puts a biker in danger (right hooks, etc.). But the majority of the drivers seem to see me as part of the general traffic. I ride through some very busy parts of the city, and rarely have a significant problem. The biggest problems I have are those occasions where I find myself on a MUP dodging stroller brigades.
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In my three years of riding the roads in and around Austin, I've been yelled at once by a guy in a mini-truck. I waved.
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Where in Texas? I'd imagine there is a huge diff between Austin and some other "less educated" counties.

Then were u in the middle of the road and impeding traffic? Fess up now.
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